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Bridle Your Appetites
April 29, 2002

Jesus didn't pull any punches when he said, "No one can serve two masters. Either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other" (Matthew 6:24). While Jesus was talking about the tension between loving God and loving money, the principle applies to other areas of life as well. We cannot devote ourselves to God and at the same time nurture a secret sin.

You may be thinking, "Wait a minute, Bill, so what if I pick up a Playboy once in a while or occasionally peek at a bare woman on the Internet; I've never committed adultery." Or, "Just because I pad my expense account, that doesn't make me a thief." You may rationalize your behavior--whether it has something to do with sex, drugs, money, or power--by denying its seriousness.

The truth is, you must control your destructive inclinations by bridling "little sins," because in reality they aren't so little--and they can and often do lead to destruction. The apostle Paul said, "Don't you know that when you offer yourselves to someone to obey him as slaves, you are slaves to the one whom you obey--whether you are slaves to sin, which leads to death, or to obedience, which leads to righteousness" (Romans 6:16).

In effect, Paul is telling us that our pet pleasure--whatever it may be--is a gremlin. Do you remember those cute furry creatures from the movie? They start out as soft and cuddly, and before long they turn into monsters that destroy life.
I wish I could pull up a comfortable chair and sit beside you. For just a moment I would ask you to be honest with yourself and with God. If your life is under control, I would urge you to keep it that way. But if it isn't, I would beg you to deal with your appetite before it devours you.

For the sake of God's reputation, for your own sake, for the sake of your family, friends, and those you love--break free today. Don't allow all you've invested your life in to be tarnished because you were too proud, too independent, or too fearful to act decisively. As a Mighty Man, resolve to keep your appetites under control. If that means acknowledging they aren't, then admit it--and seek help now.

David was the leader of the Mighty Men. Yet, because he didn't bridle his sexual appetite not only did he sleep with Bathsheba, he had her husband, Uriah the Hittite, killed in order to cover his sin. And did you know that Uriah was one of David's Mighty Men? What a tragedy. And it could have been prevented if David hadn't been in the wrong place at the wrong time looking at the wrong thing.

We've all locked arms and committed ourselves to seek God's grace to enable us to bridle our appetites. When one of us falls--it affects us all--just ask David. So this week let's determine that we'll aggressively bridle our appetites so they don't get out of control. And if they're running wild, we'll reign them in.

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